As far as I'm concerned, the point is not so much who does the housework, as who decides who does the housework.

I don't personally care whether she does 90 or 50% of it. I care that most men state on surveys that they do more hours and a greater percentage of housework than is true. I care that most women WANT an equal distribution of housework, but don't receive it. I care that most men aren't bothered by that.

The problem is not who does what. It's whose will determines who does what.