Aww. I don’t think men like this are unattractive actually. In my experience, they either know exactly how valuable they are and pair up almost immediately..or they lack social skills or have been bullied by other men, and believe this makes them unattractive to women. They’re alone because they’re insecure and afraid of rejection and don’t know how to talk to women, not because they’re ugly or unlikable.
If freaking Jared Leto, who is ugly and an addict and a despicable human being, can get a girlfriend, just about any guy has a chance.