BECAUSE IF YOU HAVE BEEN RAPED, SEXUALLY HARASSED, SEXUALLY ABUSED etc. just for existing in a female body, there is no world in which it is your responsibility to be "nice."

In fact, my dude, why isn't it YOUR responsibility, as a semi-decent human being, to treat women better? You live in a society where 1 in 4 women you meet have been raped. Why aren't you volunteering every spare moment of your time at rape crisis shelters? Why aren't you doing everything in your power to keep the people around you safe? It seems to me, in fact, that you are doing a terrible job of being a traditional man, but you are also doing a terrible job of being anything else. You're not keeping women safe nor are you changing into a decent person who can participate in building social equity.

Meaning, you're useless to women.