Have you met most guys who are single in their 30s? They don’t bathe. They can’t carry on a conversation without putting most of their energy into their mental conversation with themselves. They think any woman who veers off-script from their patriarchal fantasy is “crazy” and most of them are secretly convinced that all women are crazy. They think they’re gentlemen in their imaginary opera set in 1850s aristocratic neverland sorta Europe sorta medieval wherever.
Dating is boring, but actually talking to them is impossible.