I actually really appreciated this response.
I just quit/was kicked out of a sexual healing support group because I wanted to talk about the fact that sexual abuse and sexual violence often causes lifelong disability, physical and mental, which impacts how we will be able to have sex.
The facilitator was like, nah.
I think there’s a ton of pressure on women to make things look normal even if we’re not enjoying ourselves.
I also think men are in pain—like from the consequences of circumcision, for example-but never talk about it.