I am thinking about all the progressive men I know who can speak fluently about their love languages, their personal experiences of violence or vulnerability, but cannot sit with women and with women's experiences of sexism and patriarchal violence--including at their hands.

These men do so much harm, justify it to themselves, then move on. Like parasitic predators.

What is the difference between a narcissist and someone who sees themselves only as a victim within relationships where they objectively have all the power?