I appreciate this perspective, but I do not appreciate the implication that the “silent majority” has a positive relationship to anal sex. I used to work at a sex toy shop and we had scared girls come through all the time who did anal and it hurt, or were being pressured into anal.

I just hooked up with a guy who kept trying to put it in my butt despite me saying no.

The norm for my generation and younger is guys pressuring women and young girls into it.