I blame the 90s.
My generation was told we could do, have, and be everything we ever wanted.
That, friends, is what is called a LIE.
I am a woman. I am also genderqueer and sexually queer (demisexual) and Jewish and disabled and fat and currently working class, which means..you guessed it. In the Game of Life Under Capitalism, which is basically a game of collect all forms of privilege you can grab, I have basically none of them.
Except being a person of color. But my mother is. So I still have a lot of the internalized racist crap and my point is, that I really was never…