I can relate to this. As a fat woman, as a biracial woman. White men assume I’m slutty, easy, etc and white women blame me for the ways their partners interact with me. It is absolutely rooted in stereotypes and prejudice and it’s disgusting. The entire charade perverts the historical fact that white men raped and harassed women of color, and when WOC did say yes it was because we were coerced by poverty or circumstance.
Blaming the victim.