I didn't work hard in my 20s..because I spent year 21 homeless, year 22 puking my guts out every day for reasons never explained, year 23 trying to get decent medical and mental health treatment, year 24 sitting on my parents' couch unable to do literally anything, year 25 interning and tutoring and taking community college classes and trying to put my damn life back together.

All of which was another kind of work.

Just to say, there are different worlds and the world where family $ makes a person entitled to sexually assault people is not my world.