I don’t actually feel like men who have “good intentions” actually do.
Hear me out.
If you are a white person who lives in a society where slavery exists and you don’t personally fight against slavery, you are a racist.
If you are a man who lives in a society where women are constantly raped, beaten, sexually harassed, and murdered by other men, and you do nothing, you are a sexist.
I have a right to not allow sexist men to put hands on me. No matter how “nice” they are.