I don't even know where to start with this. There are endless books and articles telling women to lose weight! Women are conditioned to meet men's dating requirements! NO ONE is telling men that they need to date fat women. Meanwhile, women are beset by images telling us to give up our standards and go out with guys who are truly horrible and have no social skills.

Sorry that one woman didn't want to date you because you personally are short, but you're extrapolating to the entire universe based on your one personal experience and it's bullshit.