I have been basically called an embarrassing slut for asking a man if he wanted to sleep with me, and immediately apologizing and backing off when he said no.
Meanwhile, when I go on dating sites or flirt or even just wear cute clothes and smile in a friendly way, my body is ogled, I have been sent sick pics and rape threats and been insulted and called slut and whore, groped, sexually assaulted and denigrated.
Men believe the world belongs to them, and should.