I have been pursued by so many guys who all fit the same description. Skinny, white men with serious bodily insecurities, little self-awareness, and a serious dearth of social skills. Guys who come on really strong, but tend to back off if I become interested and then dare communicate my expectations or my wishes. Guys who approach relationships with their own needs front and center, and hope to be so impressive with their credentials and degrees that the other person won't notice or care that they lack empathy and basic mental health. Guys who make me feel crazy, who have unspoken rules and a firm belief in their right to 'punish' me for breaking those rules. Scary shit.