I really appreciate this article.

My experience has mostly been as the person kept around as a romantic or sexual supplement by men in committed partnerships.

The sense I get is that if I were to seduce them, they would be into it, but that they don't want to have to take responsibility for either their feelings for me or for possibly stepping over the line in their current relationships.

I'm not interested in weak men like that anymore.

I need men who set clear and effective boundaries from the get-go to protect their relationships. Otherwise, I can't trust them.