I really appreciate your articles for the way they highlight male behaviors that always baffled me, or that I assumed were my fault. I definitely have encountered men who treated women like shit as a matter of course or viewed women as status symbols. I've also encountered men who treated sex as an act of dominance. They make dating terrifying for all women, because we spend our time trying to figure out which men are the crazies rather than trying to focus on how WE feel or what WE want. We can never just relax and enjoy what should be an enjoyable process.