I see a lot of assumptions here. Militant feminism=approaching ALL men with suspicion=how dare men hit on her?

Most women don't like men to hit on us if there's not some prior interaction that lets him know his attention is wanted.

And most women get hit on ALL the time.

It's enough to make anybody into a militant feminism.

And we're back to the "being socially awkward does not mean that you don't deserve the benefit of the doubt" point that you raised a little while ago, no?