I think it's incredibly clear from real-life stories that love happens at every size!

But I also think that the dating world, unfortunately, is a market, and in any market, an object for sale is assigned value based on the price other people are willing to pay.

I don't think that has anything to do with fat women's INTRINSIC value.

I think it has a lot to do, though, with the value other people perceive fat women to hold, and what they are willing to "pay" for the pleasure of our company.

I also think I freaking deserve to see fat women get the guy on TV.

The actual guy.

The one she wants.

The hot one.

The hero.

We deserve that.

And moreover, we deserve not to be taken for granted or taken advantage of or treated like the best we can hope for is a romantic friendship with a guy who uses us to get his rocks off while he waits for his (skinny) "soulmate."