I wish men understood how excited women are to meet men who know their own value and act confident in who they are! I adore men who are weird, quirky, and have unusual jobs they enjoy. The best men I know have walked away from patriarchal requirements that they look or act a certain way, in favor of living a life they enjoy and find meaningful.
Guys who are walking resumes, on the other hand, are impossible to get to know or feel close to.