If a man like you, with your authority, can look at the rates of women who are sexually assaulted on birthright (myself included), raped by our Jewish fathers while our male religious leaders say it’s fine and turn a blind eye (myself included), then encounter male dating prospects who “just wanna have fun” and don’t want to think about how often that “fun” has come at the cost of Women’s agency and well-being, and then you tell me to go to therapy? To “choose better?”
You are part of the problem too.