I’m totally fine with men wanting sex or not wanting it. It’s the part where it feels like men expect me to guess that’s so frustrating to me. If he says he wants to just be friends but he’s acting romantic but he doesn’t want to sleep with me..I’m sorry, but at a certain point, he needs to identify what he wants and how to say it.

I feel like guys expect me to act like we’re in a committed relationship before he even says he liked me. Like if I’m flirting with another guy, I’m “cheating,” but meanwhile he has no accountability.

I support guys wanting whatever they want. But I don’t like feeling like they’re learning what that is at my expense.