It feels like people need to get a life.
Like are you telling me if people were actually involved in hobbies they loved, did sports they enjoyed, spent time out in nature etc that they would give a shit that x hooked up with y but didn’t ask y’s partner and now that person is in a rage and claiming a boundary violation?

It’s like the kids in middle school who sit around talking shit about everyone else thinking that means they’re cool.
Actually it’s just depression.
That’s what depression looks like.