I’ve had a series of female friends who adore me until they view me as competition and I start setting boundaries with them, especially emotional boundaries.
I’ve also had a number of white women actively insist I have “harmed” them or done violence to them through things like speaking directly, calling them out, getting angry and acknowledging my anger verbally, etc.
It’s amazing how many women who’ve gotten used to unearned places at the top of the social hierarchy feel threatened because I exist and dare assert my own power fearlessly.
Just being a fat woman who has sex and enjoys it is plenty to “offend” others.