Lol you’re an idiot. I grew up in Conservative Judaism, went to Hebrew school 3 times a week, got bat mitzvah’d. I’ve been part of liberal Jewish community ever since. I led services at Hillel. I went on Birthright.
I’m a member of your community with as much right to talk about the realities of modern Judaism as anyone else.
As for Jews being “less patriarchal” than anyone else, let me refer you to the religion that workships men.
Stop trying to silence me. Calling Jews “antisemitic” anytime we criticize other Jews is gross.