Love this piece.
Definitely agree that patriarchy sacrifices its men same as it does its women. Throwing sexual favors to boys in exchange for the ongoing sociohistorical reality that they’ll be sacrificed to the permanent state of war endemic to empire.
Patriarchy is about building empire and fighting wars and teaching boys to grow up to become soldiers or kings, and girls to become whores or mothers of soldiers or mothers of kings.
For the glory of military success, because our god is better than your god, for more gold and more wars.