My favorite story about punishment so far:
Guy with girlfriend pursues me.
I refuse to sleep with him.
He brings girlfriend over an hour after trying to get me into bed.
Next night, he brings girlfriend #2 over (he’s poly) and makes a point of rubbing her in my face.
I tell him I want to be with him, but actually. No games or additional girlfriends.
He says leave me alone.
I sleep with someone else and he sees me and freaks out, makes up some bullshit story about me doing it just to hurt him or make him jealous (because obviously women don’t want sex, it has to be some machination) gets me kicked out of his house.
Because how dare I exist, and not fuck him, and have boundaries. Clearly I must be crazy or manipulative since he feels bad and I don’t care.