My least favorite experience, and it happens regularly, is when a guy starts wooing me hoping to change my mind and change the direction of my professional life to assert his dominance and his masculinity..not because he wants ME, you understand, but because my power threatens him and makes him feel emasculated. Inevitably, the moment I return his affections, he flees, because his goal is not the stable mutual relationship I want, his goal is to dominate and intimidate and “seduce” me into accepting his control and his dick so he can feel good about himself.