My progression—
Me objectively fat, feeling bad about myself, chronically ill, obsessed with my looks, feeling worthless: attracted women who used me
As soon as I started to glow up a little: oh, good for you! You look so pretty in that one article of clothing. Want a makeover? While I talk about my latest Boyfriend?
Once I gained more confidence, set some boundaries: oh, don’t worry hon, not everyone has to be pretty/smart/successful like me
Eventually: does it bother you to be such a slut/loser/idiot?
What’s amazing to me is that it’s so socially acceptable to attack women for acting confident. Especially women who are not considered socially attractive but put ourselves together and attract notice and make men want us anyway. Women HATE us cuz we break the rules. Men hate us because we have power over them.