No but I think there’s a lot of pressure to be pan and to be poly and it’s the same.
As a disabled person with severe trauma, I can’t tell you how many guys or masc queer people (no apparent difference re this reaction, sadly) have conversations with my breasts as they tell me they’re willing to “be there” for me and do “whatever I need to be comfortable.”
No they’re not.
I’m fat so I’m supposed to have no boundaries and I’m curvy so I’m supposed to be a slut.
Heaven forbid I refuse to obey my “type.”