Oh I don’t know. Maybe it’s just something I made up. But I usually feel like the virgin/whore thing is totally accurate. And either the guy idolizes and idealizes me, in which case he’s too nervous to actually talk to me like a human being and/or punishes me if I don’t act like the saintly princess from his fantasies-or else he downgrades me to whore, in which case he anxiously tries to fumble me into bed without making eye contact and loses his mind if I don’t comply.