See..I’m a person full of red flags. I have a history with an eating disorder, abuse, alcoholism, sexual assault, poverty.

And I never know when to disclose.

But the truth is, anyone for whom those things would be red flags? Isn’t worthy of me.

Sometimes red flags are trauma or insecurity.

Sometimes they’re evil or narcissism.

It’s important to ask questions to get more information. It’s also important to listen to the answers.