She doesn't want to fuck you because you don't clean your house or your room; you have three girlfriends on the side as "placeholders" and you think you're making her jealous, but you're banking on low self-esteem that ain't there; you only like women you can control, but you don't respect them; you use women, and the more you do, the less attractive you are to the kind of women who won't let ourselves be used.