That is what fetishizing someone means. It means that you look at a beautiful woman and all you see is a body, and not a person inside it. If you look at a beautiful woman, at any living person, and all you see is their physical appearance, then yes. That means you’re fetishizing someone. By definition.

Beautiful women get an awful lot in this society. I get an awful lot in this society, and I know it. But I also know how empty it feels. You have never stood in that place and you have no idea what it’s like. So shut your mouth about how awesome it must be to be desired by total strangers. It’s not.