That strikes me as a morality problem.
The men I know who are not like this, or not like this all the time, are men who have been taught they are obligated to contribute as a moral imperative.
It is part of the obligation to participate in a community.
There is typically a religious component.
Without the moral obligation to serve others, yeah, men do whatever they want.
The consequences are obvious-pursuing younger and younger women, refusing to engage with the reality of sexual violence and its effects, lionizing sexuality as the height of moral courage and heroic adventurousness as though being willing to receive anal makes a man a feminist.
The realm of politics has been surrendered as a space of meaningful political action.