The political nature of oppression gets ignored when people want to focus on what feels fun and sexy and I feel like men want their feminism to get them “laid” and/or be entertaining.
The idea that doing the right thing should be done because it’s the right thing, and then the next thing should be done because that is the next right thing, and none of those actions will necessarily lead to sex with hot “babes”, is really aggravating to women who are expected to pretend our experiences of sexual violence don’t exist so men will feel more comfortable.