This is a good example of why people should be more careful before they get married, and I don't mean because they might accidentally marry someone they aren't truly committed to.

If you had the skills you need to maintain your marriage, you would have this conversation with your husband.

If he had the skills he needs to maintain his marriage, he would have raised this question with you when you started to disconnect.

Expressing your needs with the people closest to you is difficult, not impossible.

It's sad that both of you got married before you learned how to be in a healthy relationship.

Now here you are.

You could still learn, if you wanted to.

No time like the present.