This seems like a psychoanalysis rooted in insufficient information, performed by someone who doesn’t have a serious background in psychology. “Like attracts like” is demonstrably untrue in the world of relationships, particularly given the interpersonal dynamics of oppression and white feminism. Anna is a known sociopathic bully and you’ve just written a not so clever takedown of her most visible victim.
Er..congratulations?
This is called “blaming the victim.”