Was romantically involved with several guys in my Jewish community who treated me like crap, then immediately found white GFs they treated well.

Class and race impact how some guys think they can get away with treating you.

Hated myself for this for a long time.
But if I accept their logic, I’m participating in their racist logic.
I don’t have to co-sign the idea that thin white women born into privilege are worth more than me.
I also don’t really want a partner who believes that, either.