Yes. But the other half of this article? Is people who have never done any real work on themselves. Guys who have no emotional intelligence or minimal self-control and social skills. Women who lack assertiveness skills or boundaries. People who are selfish, people who are narcissistic, people who are obsessed with the Instagram version of their lives.

Relationships don’t fail because people disagree about how to spend their money. Relationships fail because they can’t empathize or prioritize someone else’s needs over their own wants.