You’re being deliberately obtuse. You are literally demanding that the people around you act as though they have knowledge of you that they don’t. And frankly, as a disabled person, I feel pretty damn comfortable telling you that your response smacks of entitled white dude “how dare anyone interfere with my right to be a dick” itis. No one’s stepping on your rights by insisting on our own. You just seem to think everything’s got to be all about you.

I’m ashamed of you. Queer disabled people exist too. Just not in your world.