Yup. Fat women spend so much time trying to figure out if guys really like us, or if they’re only interested because they think we’re easy or because they don’t have to respect us as much or treat us as well. We see how uncomfortable our partners sometimes get about our weights. We see how they ignore or look past our weight. We know where we stand in the social order. We know they see it too.

And we deserve better than to be condescended to or cruelly criticizes by our partners because they confuse our looks with their masculinity.